12 SIGNS OF A BAD LISTENER
1. I interrupt 2. I think of my reply while you are still speaking
3. I change the subject 4. I don't answer your questions
5. I tell you you're the same as everyone else 6. I jump to conclusions
7. I move mentally outside the situation 8. I give advice rather than ask questions
9. I feel I have to fill pauses or silence 10. 'The same thing happened to me'
11. I move my hands or feet or bodily position a lot 12. I try to 'fix' your problem